Comments on: This is ugly. http://www.subtleglow.com/2006/07/this-is-ugly/ My stubborn will, is learning to bend. Thu, 08 Jan 2009 21:11:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.4 by: Suebob http://www.subtleglow.com/2006/07/this-is-ugly/#comment-223 Mon, 31 Jul 2006 16:36:00 +0000 http://www.subtleglow.com/2006/07/this-is-ugly/#comment-223 I'm sure that post took a lot of courage to write and I applaud you for being able to be so honest about it. I think that your father's punishment is that he has to wake up every day and be himself. He has to know, at some level, what a mess he is - that's why he keeps trying to project it all outward on other people. I think part of the rage might come from wishing that life was fair. But it isn't. It just isn't. I’m sure that post took a lot of courage to write and I applaud you for being able to be so honest about it.

I think that your father’s punishment is that he has to wake up every day and be himself. He has to know, at some level, what a mess he is - that’s why he keeps trying to project it all outward on other people.

I think part of the rage might come from wishing that life was fair. But it isn’t. It just isn’t.

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